if(err){returnmessage.channel.send("There was an error in trying to do that!");}
letconf=awaitask(message,`Are you sure you want to decline ${client.utils.ps(message.guild.members.cache.get(person).displayName)} marriage request?`,60000);
if(!mention){returnmessage.channel.send("You have to mention the person you'd like to marry!");}
if(!message.guild.members.cache.has(mention.id)){returnmessage.channel.send("I can't find that user! Make sure they're in this server before trying to marry them, or go to a server they're in. If you're certain that person is in this server, then wait for them to come online and send a message first; that might help.");}