if(!message.guild.members.cache.has(mention.id)){returnmessage.channel.send("I can't find that user! Make sure they're in this server before trying to marry them, or go to a server they're in. If you're certain that person is in this server, then wait for them to come online and send a message first; that might help.");}
if(mention.id===client.user.id){returnmessage.channel.send("I'm actually already married! Well, I will be soon, to my girlfriend Tamaki. I love her very much <:NC_hearty:841489530413383712>");}
if(mention.bot){returnmessage.channel.send("Us bots aren't smart enough to respond to a marriage request and we're really too boring to wanna marry in the first place, so I'll just stop you in your tracks now.");}
if(mention.id===message.author.id){returnmessage.channel.send("ehe :sweat_smile: it doesn't work that way...");}