diff --git a/.idea/workspace.xml b/.idea/workspace.xml
index 2ec308a..22e71da 100644
--- a/.idea/workspace.xml
+++ b/.idea/workspace.xml
@@ -4,12 +4,10 @@
     <option name="autoReloadType" value="SELECTIVE" />
   </component>
   <component name="ChangeListManager">
-    <list default="true" id="826c705b-a7fa-4ece-b82a-e278fca7d494" name="Changes" comment="/deathnote">
+    <list default="true" id="826c705b-a7fa-4ece-b82a-e278fca7d494" name="Changes" comment="marriage declining">
       <change beforePath="$PROJECT_DIR$/.idea/workspace.xml" beforeDir="false" afterPath="$PROJECT_DIR$/.idea/workspace.xml" afterDir="false" />
-      <change beforePath="$PROJECT_DIR$/bot.js" beforeDir="false" afterPath="$PROJECT_DIR$/bot.js" afterDir="false" />
-      <change beforePath="$PROJECT_DIR$/events/messageCreate.js" beforeDir="false" afterPath="$PROJECT_DIR$/events/messageCreate.js" afterDir="false" />
-      <change beforePath="$PROJECT_DIR$/util/lxp/cacheloop.js" beforeDir="false" afterPath="$PROJECT_DIR$/util/lxp/cacheloop.js" afterDir="false" />
-      <change beforePath="$PROJECT_DIR$/util/lxp/gainxp.js" beforeDir="false" afterPath="$PROJECT_DIR$/util/lxp/gainxp.js" afterDir="false" />
+      <change beforePath="$PROJECT_DIR$/package-lock.json" beforeDir="false" afterPath="$PROJECT_DIR$/package-lock.json" afterDir="false" />
+      <change beforePath="$PROJECT_DIR$/package.json" beforeDir="false" afterPath="$PROJECT_DIR$/package.json" afterDir="false" />
     </list>
     <option name="SHOW_DIALOG" value="false" />
     <option name="HIGHLIGHT_CONFLICTS" value="true" />
@@ -79,7 +77,7 @@
       <command value="git pull origin master" />
     </option>
   </component>
-  <component name="RunManager" selected="npm.dev:pretty">
+  <component name="RunManager" selected="npm.sync">
     <configuration name="Start" type="NodeJSConfigurationType" path-to-js-file="bot.js" working-dir="$PROJECT_DIR$">
       <method v="2" />
     </configuration>
@@ -163,7 +161,10 @@
       <workItem from="1642638383959" duration="700000" />
       <workItem from="1642707112676" duration="1337000" />
       <workItem from="1644446122031" duration="7044000" />
-      <workItem from="1645389860831" duration="4164000" />
+      <workItem from="1645389860831" duration="6697000" />
+      <workItem from="1645490767613" duration="1990000" />
+      <workItem from="1645646716022" duration="11456000" />
+      <workItem from="1645765271756" duration="14000" />
     </task>
     <task id="LOCAL-00001" summary="not even gonna explain">
       <created>1640148826800</created>
@@ -256,7 +257,42 @@
       <option name="project" value="LOCAL" />
       <updated>1644454968528</updated>
     </task>
-    <option name="localTasksCounter" value="14" />
+    <task id="LOCAL-00014" summary="AR templating">
+      <created>1645501776749</created>
+      <option name="number" value="00014" />
+      <option name="presentableId" value="LOCAL-00014" />
+      <option name="project" value="LOCAL" />
+      <updated>1645501776749</updated>
+    </task>
+    <task id="LOCAL-00015" summary="n?marry">
+      <created>1645649572924</created>
+      <option name="number" value="00015" />
+      <option name="presentableId" value="LOCAL-00015" />
+      <option name="project" value="LOCAL" />
+      <updated>1645649572924</updated>
+    </task>
+    <task id="LOCAL-00016" summary="marriage status">
+      <created>1645650089290</created>
+      <option name="number" value="00016" />
+      <option name="presentableId" value="LOCAL-00016" />
+      <option name="project" value="LOCAL" />
+      <updated>1645650089290</updated>
+    </task>
+    <task id="LOCAL-00017" summary="can't marry yourself lul">
+      <created>1645660453432</created>
+      <option name="number" value="00017" />
+      <option name="presentableId" value="LOCAL-00017" />
+      <option name="project" value="LOCAL" />
+      <updated>1645660453432</updated>
+    </task>
+    <task id="LOCAL-00018" summary="marriage declining">
+      <created>1645679244004</created>
+      <option name="number" value="00018" />
+      <option name="presentableId" value="LOCAL-00018" />
+      <option name="project" value="LOCAL" />
+      <updated>1645679244004</updated>
+    </task>
+    <option name="localTasksCounter" value="19" />
     <servers />
   </component>
   <component name="TypeScriptGeneratedFilesManager">
@@ -289,6 +325,11 @@
     <MESSAGE value="slash improvements" />
     <MESSAGE value="more slash improvements" />
     <MESSAGE value="/deathnote" />
-    <option name="LAST_COMMIT_MESSAGE" value="/deathnote" />
+    <MESSAGE value="AR templating" />
+    <MESSAGE value="n?marry" />
+    <MESSAGE value="marriage status" />
+    <MESSAGE value="can't marry yourself lul" />
+    <MESSAGE value="marriage declining" />
+    <option name="LAST_COMMIT_MESSAGE" value="marriage declining" />
   </component>
 </project>
\ No newline at end of file
diff --git a/commands/social/afk.js b/commands/social/afk.js
index a482e50..a8e45c8 100644
--- a/commands/social/afk.js
+++ b/commands/social/afk.js
@@ -21,8 +21,8 @@ module.exports = {
                 ? message.content.slice(prefix.length).trim().split(/ +/g)
                 : msg.startsWith('<@!')
                     ? message.content.slice(4 + client.user.id.length).trim().split(/ +/g)
-                    : message.content.slice(3 + client.user.id.length).trim().split(/ +/g)
-            .slice(2);
+                    : message.content.slice(3 + client.user.id.length).trim().split(/ +/g);
+        args = args.slice(1);
         if (!args.length) {return message.channel.send(`Syntax: \`${prefix}afk [clearMode] <reason>\``);}
         let tu = await UserData.findOne({uid: message.author.id})
             ? await UserData.findOne({uid: message.author.id})
diff --git a/commands/social/dnd.js b/commands/social/dnd.js
index 76e91c0..1befcb2 100644
--- a/commands/social/dnd.js
+++ b/commands/social/dnd.js
@@ -22,8 +22,8 @@ module.exports = {
                 ? message.content.slice(prefix.length).trim().split(/ +/g)
                 : msg.startsWith('<@!')
                     ? message.content.slice(4 + client.user.id.length).trim().split(/ +/g)
-                    : message.content.slice(3 + client.user.id.length).trim().split(/ +/g)
-            .slice(2);
+                    : message.content.slice(3 + client.user.id.length).trim().split(/ +/g) 
+        args = args.slice(1);
         let tu = await UserData.findOne({uid: message.author.id})
             ? await UserData.findOne({uid: message.author.id})
             : new UserData({uid: message.author.id});